With both Reagan and Lincoln having music lessons in Sandbach on a Tuesday just far enough apart time wise that I take Reagan to piano and wait in the car parked on the common for half an hour.

I then drive home and if Jamie has cooked tea there is time to eat before driving  Lincoln to drumming and wait in the car parked on the common for half an hour.

So basically finish work walk Billy then taxi the kids the saving grace about it is I do get an hour (total) of me time to unwind after working all day, while I wait!

I believe Reagan is slowly realising how much her life is about to change and I think it must be beginning to play on her mind. She wanted to go to a national trust today but it was important that Lincoln went too, like it always used to be, and I think she can tell those days are not going to happen many more times like that.

Its one of her last half-term before she leaves school she’s done her mocks so the only thing left is her GCSEs and it will come quickly from here and I just think she realised it…?

I hope she finds a way to enjoy the next few weeks because the transition will happen and the next phase of her life I am certain will be so exciting and she’ll love it.

Trying to finish the Adarondak chair I started a year ago was my mission this weekend not least because I wanted the space where the wood has sat in my shed all that time. The biggest issue I have always had with it is mistakes but also I was unable to see what it was going to be, but if I was going to finish it I had to start it.

With all the bits already cut it was never going to be a huge job and once I got everything laid out I got to work. a couple of hours flew by and there was a chair not completed but you could sit on it.

I made a few mistakes mostly minor and mostly rectifyable but I ignored them or more accurately worked past them. It was a lesson learned that the fear of failure is worse than failure because unless you try you’ll never make anything even a mistake!

We sat tonight watching TV on a Saturday night while both Reagan and Lincoln were out enjoying themselves both on nights out the former celebrating her best friends 16th birthday the latter watching a production of the Wizard of Oz

Oh how the times are changing….

With Mommy in London and the kids off school Reagan asked if she could have a few friends over for a film night on Friday which I said yes to straight away so long as the house is not wrecked.

There were 5 teenagers in the house 5+ hours and the house was spotless before hand and it was as spotless afterwards too. I was so impressed I spoke to them both and praised them telling them both that if the house looks like that they can have friends around anytime.

I didn’t have to do anything which is all I asked of them, when I had to work all day.

I went to the Legion tonight for a meeting that was billed as make-or-break for the survival of the club. We were told the club is running at a loss and currently has debts of around £20,000.

As you’d expect at meetings like this, lots of people wanted to know why and how things have reached this point, and what can be done to fix it. A group from head office went through some facts after the club accountant presented the financial position. The biggest drain is the wage bill, but any changes would have to be handled legally and fairly. The steward — who is the highest-paid — has apparently been off sick with stress for a long time. The other three bar staff cost less, but nobody really addressed what would happen if those four weren’t there. Someone still has to open and run the club every night, so it’s not as simple as just getting rid of staff.

In my opinion, the biggest problem is the small group of regulars who are there every night. One of them said, “I put £200 a week over the bar — I’m not the problem.” But in reality, that group of 10–15 people is part of the problem because they resist any change and make newcomers feel unwelcome.

The club doesn’t feel welcoming at all. It’s “members only,” and even occasional members can feel like outsiders because the atmosphere is dominated by this small crowd. There are no young people coming in who might become future regulars. There’s no passing trade, no effort to attract local people looking for somewhere to socialise, and events — when they do happen — aren’t advertised. The place feels stuck in the 1970s.

Volunteers were asked to step forward to form a committee to move things forward, and a few people did — but I suspect they’ll face the same resistance from those who don’t want change. Some even suggested breaking ties and turning it into a “working men’s club like the good old days.”

Give me strength — it’s 2026, not 1972. Society has changed. Women are just as much part of social spaces, families go out together, and young people — even if they drink less — still have money to spend and want places to go. They could be a vital source of income if the club adapted.

Social habits have changed, and I worry the Legion may already have missed the chance to save itself. One thing I am sure of is that those at the meeting who insist they’re not the problem could well be drinking elsewhere in 12 months’ time, looking out at new flats built where the club used to stand — unless change happens quickly. And even then, I fear the outcome may already be inevitable.

The whole, PCP (Personal Contract Purchase) mis-selling which occured when car dealers failed to act in a customer’s best interest, specifically by hiding, misrepresenting, or omitting key information about finance deals, has been annoying me for ages because both Jamie and me have had multiple agreements since 2007 but it felt so daunting to choose a company to claim for us.

This morning I found Martin Lewis had a free PCP claim tool which just needs 2 key pieces of information and it drafts an email that if successful means we get 100% of the mis-sold commission if its due to us.

So we found the agreement numbers and registration numbers of all and let the tool  draft an email for each and sent them off, so we’ll see, I guess.

If it works we get some money back and if it doesn’t we wasted 20 minutes of our time, so fingers crossed!

Its still dry although its not been a walk in the park for the first half I have found it difficult to stop myself thinking why am I doing this to myself why should I have to stop myself doing something I thoroughly enjoy doing, when everyone around me does what they love doing, everyday?

I have found an antidote something special that really helps….Appetiser in a wine glass not sure why but I look forward to it like having a drink!

Hopefully it will make the next two weeks easier?

Jamie’s mom & dad asked me to help setup the new computer they had purchased because their old Windows 7 PC had issues, not least that it was Windows 7.

I asked them to load UltraViewer and took over the screen of the new one and straight off the bat sorted Edge out to it used Google as default so we could actually find stuff. Next I loaded up drivers for their printer and got that working.

The scanner was next but to cut a long story short it was incompatible with Windows 11 but because they needed a swift fix they asked me to look at the old pc now to cut a very long story short it like any other 10+ year old computer was full of junk. Its primary issue though which took a while was the icons they “always” use to get to Microsoft products didn’t work but deleting them repairing the installation and putting icons back in positions where they were before was apparently their utopia.

The scanner software had been written over and was difficult to retrieve so I added a recommended 3rd party software that got it up and running and even if it wasn’t the same as before it worked and allowed them to do what they needed to do.

Later they called Jamie and expressed how pleased they were with what I’d done and how much time and money it had saved them, which frustrates me slightly because I could help them any time they don’t need to spend money to fix computers when it’s something I could do for them, for free?

The biggest issue they’ll have now is the old computer works so they’ll gravitate towards what they know and the new fast all singing all dancing, shiney PC in the corner will be an after thought until they’re forced to change….

Later on I think I heard Cliff went out and bought a new scanner so maybe I’ll be proved wrong but only time will tell, I just hope they asked me if they’re struggling, but for now they seem pleased!

Do I have time to send 50 messages a day if I did I would have time to help around the house “do my bit” we all need down time but down time is earned by working hard whether it be at your job or at home making a life. That life can be hard at times, through no fault of your own, but if you work at it and do your bit great things can happen.

I try my best everyday, even if it just by walking into a room and doing something to make it better. I just try to look for ways to help the house run as smoothly as possible. I don’t always get it right but the point is I try.

Today I made a rack for my corner clamps it took all day on and off but around doing that,  I walked the dog, up to me mums in the morning for a catch up. I did 2 loads of washing, folded dry clothes, washed up walked the dog again, its not that much just things that need doing but I try to do my bit.

Jamie spent her night on “safeguarding” duties at church because some guy who had the opportunity everyday for the last couple of years to “do his bit” thought the world revolved around him and now when the world told him it doesn’t, he wants everyone to feel sorry for him… today…now…because he wants to say sorry and go back to normal but no-one is listening. So we all suffer while he attempts get the world revolving around him again…

I am no saint, I would never profess to being better than the next man, I am not selfish, I try to think of others first, I do my best to keep what I have and want for very little and I think I benefit from do my little bit everyday.

My Sunday night was spent in a hot bath watching a film, hopefully I earned that?