When arranging Jamie’s birthday night earlier this week Karl Helen and Andy confirmed they would love to go to Il Padrino in town it sounds great

When inviting me mum the first thing she said was “Do I have to eat Italian?” lol well it is an Italian restaurant but no I’m sure they’d knock up egg and chips if you really wanted them to!

Anyway we had decided on this because the birthday girls first choice Thai would have been a real waste because mum would have declined and the kids wouldn’t have liked it which is why we went to Phantong last night.

I’ll Padrino was a huge success and everyone enjoyed the food and company and the 8 of us finished off with birthday cake made by Reagan at our house so all in all a good day especially when Jamie said she’d really enjoyed her birthday weekend which is all I needed to hear because she deserves all the very best of things every day not just on her birthday!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY DUDE!

By the way mum loved her lasagne haha

Knowing Jamie really wanted to eat at Phanthong I said why don’t we go out on our own for your birthday eve and eat Thai then it doesn’t matter that no-one else likes it. Thats not strictly true we’d invited me mum for Italian tomorrow night and she said yes, she would definitely said no to this and the kids would have struggled so this was the perfect solution.

So with lifts arranged to get Lincoln to and from skating and leaving Reagan baking a chocolate birthday cake off we went to Sandbach for a date night.

With reservations for 7 it would have been rude not to start the night off in the Cheese for a drink before catching the bus. A sharing platter for starters was lovely followed by green Thai curry for Jamie and red for me we both wee fit to burst as we left the restaurant an hour or so later. We caught the 10:04 bus home but not before a few drinks at Wells and Cross pub in front of a log fire, very romantical and perfect date atmosphere.

It was Jamie’s birthday celebration but its my birthday everyday married to her!

Mom and Reagan OMG they are so alike it is untrue

Reagan wants to be better than Mom and finds it very difficult to admit that 99% of what mom is about and has been about for 15 and a half years is making her the best she can possibly be.

As a teenager the problem comes when Reagan “thinks” that mom has taught her 1% and she can improve the rest disregarding 15 years of parenting because as a teenager she knows best!

Its a human trait we hope does not apply to our own children but we all did it we all thought our parents were too old to understand, they have no idea what it’s like to be a teenager.

The biggest issue is Reagan is so rude and disrespectful to her mom, something she would NEVER be towards anyone else, but thinks it’s OK to embarrass and degrade her mom in public whenever the world might not be revolving solely around her.

She does it to me and I shout and it stops but mom only knows love and it is awful to see her so hurt when Reagan is so unthoughtful insensitive and cruel towards the person who loves her most in the world and always will love her the most.

The last bit of that last paragraph  could be Reagan’s problem she knows no matter how she treats Mom, Mom will always be there? So she tests her life skills on Mom sees what she can or can’t do what she can get away with and write an apology if Mom gets upset…

Where will it end I have no doubt it will be when Reagan goes off in to the world whether it be college or university or to make a home elsewhere and realise just how easy it was because mom had her back no matter what, would spend her last penny trying to give her the things she didn’t have as a child and guide her to being who she is today. That realisation is one part of becoming an adult and standing on your own two feet without your parents or anyone else there to help you, the tools you have then that were taught by your parents will be all you have and then you’ll see how important it was to listen and be respctful!

I just have to hope mom doesn’t kill her in the meantime…

Sometimes I don’t enjoy pool on a Wednesday because I want to win and we have struggled as a team in recent years because most of us only play on a Wednesday and don’t pick a cue up any other time.

Last night I really had so  much pride in not only my team but also my captaincy and how I played a very good side. I played the first 4 hoping they played their best 4 in the first 4 frames and I was hoping we took a frame off them but we went 4 nil down which was not ideal.

Playing AK and watching him beat their last good player finally meant we were not going to get beat by a nil score but I still had my best left. CR MC and me all won making it 4 all and made them think…

I decided I was going to play the 4 winners in the pairs me and MC played the first one and there was a decision in the frame where normally I would listen to the more experienced MC but I overruled him and played a containing safety shot which meant we won the frame rather than playing the aggressive shot he was advising.

So from 4 nil down were now 5 4 up with one frame to play and although photo does not show is CR&AK won the frame making it probably my proudest night and very enjoyable. We’ve won trophies and actually won leagues many years ago but those days may be beyond this team but tonight proved anything is possible.

Lincoln got a Well Done from the Head Teacher which we are obviously very proud of him for but he made us laugh when he told us his mate Logan got one too.

Why is yours so wordy Lincoln, compared to my ‘Well done, for having consistent excellent lesson scores!’

Lincoln’s reply was “She’s scared of me mum!’

Hahaha, he has my sense of humor

Its a long story involving a very angry email from Jamie to the Head about how poorly Reagan was treated by the school over being Head Student I think I need to do a separate post to tell it?

I am really trying to create things and I am loving creating the storage under the stairs but this weekend I just wanted to relax and potter. So I had a little go at “dowel joints” to make a ‘perfect joint between the first slf and the storage top unger the stairs but as I do often I become disillusioned quite quickly when it didn’t go right first time…

Just make something me brother told me, a while back, when I said I get stuck when things are not perfect, so I refocussed and made a couple of trays to tidy up my drill bits. The dowel job was scuppered really because the drill bits were poor and the depth collar didn’t fit right and looking for another bit was almost impossible in the chaos.

So laid them all out of the bench measured them and organised them into sizes types and purpose designed a layout to accommodate them all and made two trays.

I really enjoyed not only making them but seeing how easy it has made locating everything in the drawer for future protects.

Tonight I was desperate to get back to the understairs project but life comes first, washing clothes taking out the bins walking Billy and cooking tea all took priority…

How has walking Billy become such a chore? Answer: Winter

I love walking and do not consider myself a fair weather walker but as we enter deepest January, I look out of the window and its dark and wet I really do have to force myself to leave the house, and as I pull on my big wooley socks trying not to touch the cold floor with my bare foot then pull my boots on before layering up grabbing my hat and gloves before following a very eager Billy into the cold rainy morning or evening it sometimes feels chore

I walked to me mums this morning and it was cold wet and miserable, Billy loved it and so did I because I got to see me mum but the every day morning and evening walk does not have that joy halfway round!

Festool is a premium wood working brand and most things are 3 times the cost of anything you can buy from DeWalt Makita and the other preferred brands but this week I took the plunge and bought the Festool FS-WA/90° 90 Degree Angle Stop

My journey to this purchase has been a long one because I bought the Makita track saw last year along with the Makita tracks and, although not impossible, I have always found it time consuming to rip down plywood dead square. The YouTube woodworkers throughout all recommend the TSO GRS-16 PE v2 which gets 9.9 or 10 in every review I have read in the past 6 months and is universal attaching to all the popular brands including Makita. The problem is availability in the UK and secondly the price.

While I was off over Christmas I read a review on the Festool which said that it and the TSO V1 are the same square just rebranded so it will fit all major branded tracks… Its available in the UK for surprisingly the same cost as the TSO being the exact same piece of kit with a different sticker on it.

With PayPal 3 equal 0% payments spreading out the hit on my wallet I decided to go for it and buy one and see if it first of all fits my rails and secondly if its as good as they say it is.

The first thing I noticed was the clamp has TSO embossed on it proving that it’s the same piece of kit. The next thing to note is its simplicity slide it onto the track clamp it on and off you go. There is a TSO V2 but it is not a huge upgrade on an already perfect product the T rail locator is now L allowing it to be placed under the rail at any position rather than sliding it onto the rail, not a problem in my world, fluff rather that feature!

I used the square today and I can confirm that it cuts square, without fuss no setup just clamp to the track and I was done. Could I get the same cut with the track alone, yes, but with two pencil marks doubling the possibility of error… this was a single pencil mark drop the track on and  make the cut. Dead square!

All the above may not convince Jamie of it’s worth but I am happy and I am sure that is all that matters…!

I dream about you when you’re away, although you don’t think I do

Sad without you, I miss you I miss doing nothing with you that’s one of the biggest and best compliments I can give you

Can’t wait to see you, I am watching the clock so I can go to the station to pick you up.

When get home apart from the car journey your not mine because you have to reconnect with the children collectively  and then individually I am not the priority  and I accept that but that does not mean I am not excited it just means I have to wait!

Took delivery of the new calendars today and wanted to get them delivered so when I took Jamie to the station because she was working in London tomorrow and Saturday and Lincoln was at drama in Crewe , I was killing two birds with one stone why not deliver the calendars making it 3 birds.

Dad got one Karl got one and I left Helens at me mums so she could pick it up from there. The American side of the family should get theirs delivered direct on Tuesday fingers crossed